FAQ's

🔐 Do I need to be approved before attending?

Yes. All guests must be vetted and approved before RSVP'ing for a ticket if you have not attended one of our events before.
Please email trisha@afterdarkevents.com or DM us to begin the approval process.

We intentionally curate our guest list to ensure a safe, respectful, and aligned experience for everyone.

🎟 Can I get a ticket without approval?

All tickets are an RSVP that will follow up with an email with further instructions.

If you have not been approved, your RSVP may be canceled.

👥 What is the gender ratio?

Our events are intentionally gender balanced to the best of our abilities (unless otherwise specified for specifically themed nights).

We carefully manage the ratio to maintain the energy and flow of the space.

💃 What is the age range?

Most of our guests are between 25–55, though maturity, confidence, and respect matter more than age.

Events are strictly 21+.

🏠 Where are events hosted?

After Dark Events does not operate out of one permanent location — and that’s intentional.
Each event is placed in a space that matches its energy, theme, and crowd. The venue is part of the experience.

A Mansion in Federal Way • 20+ beds throughout the property

Large indoor/outdoor gathering areas
Oversized hot tub (fits 15–20)
Multiple play and social spaces (sex swing, St. Andrews Cross, Sex Chairs )

This venue creates a house-party-meets-fantasy-retreat energy. Guests can flow naturally between socializing, dancing, lounging, or exploring more intimate rooms.

Kink-friendly spaces in Capitol Hill

Dungeon equipment
Defined play areas
Dark, ambient lighting
Urban, sexy aesthetic

Our Olympia events take place at Adult Playground — a fully equipped lifestyle venue designed specifically for exploration.

Professionally designed dungeon equipment
Structured play rooms
Open social areas
Dance floor + DJ energy
Multiple theme rooms; Doctor Office, Glow Room, Doll Room, Saint Andrews Cross
Dark, immersive lighting
A more kink-forward atmosphere.

The exact address is provided after ticket purchase.

🍸 Is alcohol provided?

Some venues are BYOB. Details will always be listed on the event page.

Please drink responsibly. Consent and clarity are non-negotiable

💬 What are the consent rules?

Clear. Enthusiastic. Ongoing.

No means no.
Maybe means no.
Silence means no.

We operate with zero pressure and zero tolerance for disrespect.

💰 What is your refund policy?

All ticket sales are non-refundable.

If a guest cancels two weeks prior to the event, a credit toward a future event may be given at our discretion.

Credits are not guaranteed and are evaluated on a case-by-case basis.

If After Dark Events cancels an event, a full refund will be issued.

🔥 What kind of crowd attends?

Our guests include couples and singles who are:

• Social
• Respectful
• Consent aware
• Interested in elevated lifestyle experiences

This is not a nightclub.
This is not a public club.
This is a curated private experience.

👗 What should I wear?

Dress to impress. Our events are upscale, sexy, and intentional — this is your chance to show up and feel incredible.

Think:
• Lingerie, fetishwear, latex, leather
• Sexy dresses, bodysuits, heels
• Sharp clubwear or elevated all-black looks
• Harnesses, collars, statement pieces

There’s no strict dress code, but effort is expected.

If you’re unsure — it’s always better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed.

We love when guests lean into the theme of the night ✨

💬 What do you do with your belongings?

There are non-locking cubbies at most of the locations for holding items.

We encourage you to leave valuables in your car and only bring in what you need.

We are not responsible for lost or stolen items.

🎂 Can I celebrate my birthday at your event?

If your birthday is within 30 days of our event, bring 6 paid, approved friends and your ticket is FREE.

Birthday wristband + spotlight moment included.

All guests must pre-register and arrive 8–9PM.

Shoot us a e-mail trisha@afterdarkevent.org to reserve your birthday night.